There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. —Anaïs Nin

To gain wisdom we have life experiences, with these experiences we make a lot of mistakes.  There comes a point in each relationship that we either choose to see how a person has grown, or we continue to define them by their personal lessons (mistakes, poor judgement, etc…).

Before you choose, answer this … how do you wish to be seen; a person who has grown or one who is the sum of their mistakes?